IlovemyDC4
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Yea, Import Alliance in Nashville TN this July 16-17...I will be going but idk if I am bringing Snow White yet :???:
GUYS ONLY ~ Can you be friends w/ a girl w/o any sexual interest?
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G3GirL
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Because a lot of girls thrive on drama and most also think that their guy is the ONE guy that they could change, when in reality, if the guy wants to change for you, he'd have done it already -- no point sticking around for months or years just because you're hanging onto that possibility that he might change for you. Constant bickering and fighting gets old fast. I've dated long enough and have watched enough Jersey Shore episodes (lol) to know that it's not worth the effort nor is it always possible to "change" the way someone thinks. It's easier to set your standards and let it be known, date a guy, and if he isn't what you want, leave. If he wants to stay with you, he'd learn to try harder and not treat you shitty.
If you let people walk all over you and use you or control you to no end, you'll just end up hurt yourself. Whether it be physically or mentally, it's toxic. Don't be a bitch for no reason, but don't let them treat you like one either. :twocents:
IlovemyDC4
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Well said....
IlovemyDC4
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So, my bf asked me today if I'm going to run off w/ all his money for another guy? BC I have been talking to my friend & getting "cozy"? WTF does that even mean? We only talk on the phone & text... I haven't seen him in over 2 years and don't plan on seeing him anytime soon..I mean I try 2 reassure my bf that I love HIM and want to be with ONLY him but wtf ...i Can't handle this shit! He talks to his "best (girl) friend" and I don't get mad, anymore...Idk what the f*** to do! ~ I'm sick of daily accusations when I'm not doing anything wrong...UGH
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G3GirL
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How long have you been with your boyfriend and how old is he?
IlovemyDC4
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I have been with my boyfriend now for just over 3 years...I moved from So Cal to GA for him 2 years ago...ever since it hasn't been as good...but that could be because we past the 1 year mark lol ... He will be 26 in June...I will be 21 this May
Help?
8-bit
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I've seen numerous situations where the one accusing the other one of cheating is guility or even has even cheated in the pass. Sometimes they are afraid/paranoid of their partner doing the same thing to them. (21+) should be the happiest years of your life. BTW im going to attend all of the IA meets even if not able to take my integra.
G3GirL
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I thought it was pretty obvious by all the other posts in this thread, but I guess not. lol Why are you even with him still? I stand by what I said about girls thinking they'll be able to change the guy they're with. It's naive. He's not going to change if he hasn't in the past couple of years. Not to be mean, but why is that so hard to believe? If he wanted to treat you better, he would, right? What's stopping him? You don't have to assure him, remind him, beg him, anything him. Guys will treat you how you allow them to treat you. Set your standards higher and I guarantee you that more good guys will come your way.I have been with my boyfriend now for just over 3 years...I moved from So Cal to GA for him 2 years ago...ever since it hasn't been as good...but that could be because we past the 1 year mark lol ... He will be 26 in June...I will be 21 this May
Help?
Are you with him for security and convenience or because you actually see a future with him? Future as in married, babies, living together, being around each others' friends and families, etc...but just as he is now. Not "if he changes" or "maybe this...maybe that." Future as in if you took his ass and planted it ten or fifteen years from now together with a house, babies, etc. with all the same insecurities and drama. Is he who you imagine yourself to end up with when that time actually comes? If you're just waitiing for him to redeem himself, it's time to move on.
He seems immature, insecure, and controlling. Also, three years ago means you were 17 when you moved there, so technically that means he was a pedobear at some point. The odds are stacked against him. I'm sorry if this is a personal question, but where is your family? Do they approve of this? As you grow older, you'll realize how important your family and their opinions are to you. A good family has your best interest at heart and will be able to stand back and see the situation for what it is. We, on the otherhand, can't really do that since we don't know you or your boyfriend. Anyhow, that probably won't stop me from expressing my opinion. lol
Again, don't confuse jealousy stemmed from his insecurity or control issues with love.. They're not the same.
IlovemyDC4
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Well Keep me posted then...and we can meet up
I don't know if I am going to IA in April, in Atlanta but I might change my mind LOL if I don't take my car, I will be in my bfs civicIlovemyDC4
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That is how I feel & it bothers me that we are 3+ years & still questioning honesty and who I'm talking to..I mean he has talked to the same "best (girl) friend" for the entire relationship...I mean we have broken up over her before bc he won't stop talking to her but now that I have 1 friend he flips out!...Double standard!~
IlovemyDC4
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I KNOW! I need to leave him 4 good & he is on his LAST chance ~ this is it, do or die...I am done being with someone who loves me but doesn't respect me...I deserve better ~ I want to give him the chance to change but IDK if he will, we will see....:roll:
IlovemyDC4
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Oh my god what?