Ill say this. This goes for both guys and girls. If you try to hard and your still strugging to find a good bong in the relationship. Its time to move on. I learned my lesson after my last couple gfs. I had to call one girl at certain times. i gave up too much for them in time, effort, and money.
you know whats happened recently tho? on ex, 2nd before last, wanted to be friend. im like, ok, we had the longest relationship, we were good friends before anything. so why not right? after a few months, she wants to hang out. go to the park, joke around, go for walks, she supposedly has a bf but its on the rocks SHE says. after a almost a year, we got intimate. 5 months later, she says shes pregnant... im like, we were originally dated, we never had a kid. lied to me that you thought you were pregnant at one point. why should i believe you this time?
know this, shes got one kid already with this "bf" she has. we argue and NOW she starts calling him hubby. so now shes married. idk what it is but im always pickin out the psycho girls. she tells me i gotta pay any dues until she figures out who the baby belongs to. if i dont, she'll make me pay? lol. GAWD! i swear. i should start my own thread on this. lmao. ill say this, she likely got pregnant the first time months into her relationship with the other guy. we dated 2.5 years and nothing... I SAY its likely his. i just dont wanna fork over money without knowing its goin to a dr or medicine or vitamins. she calls me a dead beat dad... i wanted a kid once but had my heart broken to many times to care anymore.
