GUYS ONLY ~ Can you be friends w/ a girl w/o any sexual interest?

prophetDB7

New Member
endo617 said:
been there bro, and what sucks is you wait around for them to make up there mind, after they are all into you and only you. You start feeling different, like wtf now she wants me after all that time, then you question why you tried so hard. BS
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I know bro. I love this girl to death. But lately with the way she's been acting, I'm losing that feeling. I'm trying to tell her without swamping her with my drama, but she's hard to approach. Sigh... Oh well, win some, lose some...

I just wish she would come to her senses and thinks about the future we could have had, instead of worrying about the present and who she is most comfortable with. I know I'm not perfect, but I'm willing to try anything at least once. :alcoholic
 

blaketeg

I <3 Boost
im with jimmy, i smash

i always make new girl "friends" but we always end up bieng more than friends 90% of the time

thats just me, i live it up and have fun while im still young and single
 

Visionnaire

New Member
I admire your patience in giving him another chance and staying with him. If you want yonkerp trying to make it work, more power to you. If you choose to go, I don't blame you. But let me add this: a healthy amount of effort is good for a relationship. You shouldn't need to be trying as hard as you are (esp with your history). Trying as hard as you are, with no good result, is it really worth it?

I myself an not a second-chance kinda guy cuz to me: everything is easier the second time--whether your talking about something good or bad.

And to answer your OP-- as much as I don't like saying this, being really close friends with the opposite sex will always bring up those thoughts/ideas whether it's from just one or both people involved. While your intentions are pure, you can't really know if his are. But your bf is also wrong in being so overly jealous.
 

IlovemyDC4

Sleep, Sex, Cars
money said:
hahahha we all are ;)
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Visionnaire said:
I admire your patience in giving him another chance and staying with him. If you want yonkerp trying to make it work, more power to you. If you choose to go, I don't blame you. But let me add this: a healthy amount of effort is good for a relationship. You shouldn't need to be trying as hard as you are (esp with your history). Trying as hard as you are, with no good result, is it really worth it?

I myself an not a second-chance kinda guy cuz to me: everything is easier the second time--whether your talking about something good or bad.

And to answer your OP-- as much as I don't like saying this, being really close friends with the opposite sex will always bring up those thoughts/ideas whether it's from just one or both people involved. While your intentions are pure, you can't really know if his are. But your bf is also wrong in being so overly jealous.
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I know! Apparently he talked to my gfs bf and told him that he doesn't care that I'm talking to my friend bc he is in another state but still thinks he likes me? Honestly, whether he does or not is irrelevant to me because I love my bf.. Otherwise we wouldnt be discussing this lol

I mean I love meeting new people & wish he would just trust me! ~ especially bc I'm not the 1 who has fucked up in the past... So yeah! LOL
 

Cheesenip

I <3 2.4l's
I have friends who are females, would I smash? No but I wont sit here and say it has never crossed my mind. I think Its natural.
 

IlovemyDC4

Sleep, Sex, Cars
Well I don't think my friend likes me, and if he does, he hasn't voiced it to me...But he is fully aware of my relationship status - knows my bf - and knows his boundaries :)
 

AcurInteg96

Just call me chris.
IlovemyDC4 said:
Ya...my boyfriend has had the same female friend he talks to for the entire 3 years I have been with him...and I just started talking to a friend, that I have known for 2 years, and he is getting pissed off & I'm like WTF? LOL
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double standards are garbage. tell him to squash that shit. whats he worried about.
 

endo617

Rattle Can Technician
prophetDB7 said:
I know bro. I love this girl to death. But lately with the way she's been acting, I'm losing that feeling. I'm trying to tell her without swamping her with my drama, but she's hard to approach. Sigh... Oh well, win some, lose some...

I just wish she would come to her senses and thinks about the future we could have had, instead of worrying about the present and who she is most comfortable with. I know I'm not perfect, but I'm willing to try anything at least once. :alcoholic
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just find yourself someone that excepts you for you, when you get that person she will just be a memory
 

AcurInteg96

Just call me chris.
prophetDB7 said:
I know bro. I love this girl to death. But lately with the way she's been acting, I'm losing that feeling. I'm trying to tell her without swamping her with my drama, but she's hard to approach. Sigh... Oh well, win some, lose some...

I just wish she would come to her senses and thinks about the future we could have had, instead of worrying about the present and who she is most comfortable with. I know I'm not perfect, but I'm willing to try anything at least once. :alcoholic
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went throught the same shit with my recent ex. we were together for 3 years shit ive got the engagement ring in my closet. and a couple weeks before i was gonna propose she left me. apparently for some dude who is as childish as she is, who has turned into a dropout hermit. just gotta let it go and see where you go.
 

IlovemyDC4

Sleep, Sex, Cars
AcurInteg96 said:
very nice. nieghborhood looks pretty pieceful.
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Thank you! It is...I go for walks every night & its beautiful :)

I am sorry to hear about your ex...Her loss! I am sure your a wonderful guy & into cars :thumbs up

You going to IA in July? I see your in KY
 

AcurInteg96

Just call me chris.
IlovemyDC4 said:
Thank you! It is...I go for walks every night & its beautiful :)

I am sorry to hear about your ex...Her loss! I am sure your a wonderful guy & into cars :thumbs up

You going to IA in July? I see your in KY
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i feel it was her loss. but if she is doing what makes her happy who am i to hold it against her ya know? gotta do what makes you happy. but im not sure i know what IA is. i may have to go though.
 
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