GUYS ONLY ~ Can you be friends w/ a girl w/o any sexual interest?

[Matt Parsons]

Hey everyone! THIS IS FOR GUYS ONLY!

~ I am trying to prove a point, to my boyfriend...

Would you be able to be friends with a girl and not want to get in their pants? Or, is that all guys want...

Does it depend if she is pretty? Her personality? What is it?

Let me know! LOL This isn't a joke, I am completely serious & want your feedback!

my boyfriend is the same way. sunday nights when everyone on here hops on ps3 to play gt5 he gets mad but doesn't tell me he is mad until the next day and accuses me of cheating on him somehow by playing grand turismo with a few guys. i'm not quite sure i understand how it's cheating but he says because he's been around enough he knows how a guy thinks.

There's a thing that people do called "projection". They project their own traits upon other people. Almost everyone does this, to some extent.

Your boyfriends are probably cheating on you. Especially the thread starter. That girl that he hangs out with and is best friends with? I can almost guarantee you that he's tapping it. Or that he would, given the opportunity. You've mentioned that he's betrayed your trust already.... I'd dump him and move on, if I were you.

Its funny how people work.. I had a friend (no more, thankfully) that was always afraid her friends would abandon her. She always was worried that people were lying to her and talking shit about her. Go figure, she abandons her friends at first chance, lies constantly, and talks shit 100% of the time about everyone.

 

[Samurai_Blue]

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm yes

 

[IlovemyDC4]

Do what you do and just be open. If you find or suspect that this friend is crushing on you, let your guy know everything. My girl has a friend who is really into her, but she let him know that she's with me and that if he wanted to continue to be friends that he would have to cut it out and truly be her friend or walk. He plays by the rules now. I don't mind.

Ultimately, if you really value the friendship and it's important to you to keep, don't sacrifice it for your guy... you'll end up making more and more sacrifices from there forward and resentment will grow. Don't go down that road. If what you guys have is legit, he should support you in the areas of life you find important, whether it's friendship, family, cars, or other goals/aspirations.

That is how I feel! I love him as a friend & we are all friends but my bf is mad bc he doesn't talk to him as much as me...but its bc my bf is rude sometimes and all he wants to talk about himself & his car...so our friend doesn't talk to him as much as me...I don't think there is anything wrong...

 

[DaddyBuiltRacing]

I think it depends on the girl really, damn near every girl that I have been friends with I have ended up messing around with lol. However now that I have a son and fiance, things are a little different, I don't really have many chick friends that I associate with on a regular basis. I think that helps eliminate the sexual attraction some.

 

[IlovemyDC4]

There's a thing that people do called "projection". They project their own traits upon other people. Almost everyone does this, to some extent.

Your boyfriends are probably cheating on you. Especially the thread starter. That girl that he hangs out with and is best friends with? I can almost guarantee you that he's tapping it. Or that he would, given the opportunity. You've mentioned that he's betrayed your trust already.... I'd dump him and move on, if I were you.

Its funny how people work.. I had a friend (no more, thankfully) that was always afraid her friends would abandon her. She always was worried that people were lying to her and talking shit about her. Go figure, she abandons her friends at first chance, lies constantly, and talks shit 100% of the time about everyone.

There is one 1 problem, the girl my bf talks to, his best friend, doesn't live in that same state. She lives across the country....however, he dated her back in hs, which was a good 9-10 years ago, but still...

We have fought over her before, and he always ends up telling me that he will not stop talking to her & that he is done with me...So IDK

I really appreciate all your advice guys

 

[money]

Easy come, easy go, that's just how you live
Oh, take, take, take it all but you never give
Should've known you was trouble from the first kiss
Had your eyes wide open, why were they open?

Gave you all I had and you tossed it in the trash
You tossed it in the trash, you did
To give me all your love is all I ever asked
'Cause what you don't understand is

I'd catch a grenade for ya
Throw my hand on a blade for ya
I'd jump in front of a train for ya
You know I'd do anything for ya

I would go through all this pain
Take a bullet straight through my brain
Yes, I would die for you, baby
But you won't do the same

No, no, no, no

Black, black, black and blue, beat me 'til I'm numb
Tell the devil I said, hey, when you get back to where you're from
Mad women, bad women, that's just what you are, yeah
You'll smile in my face then rip the brakes out my car

Gave you all I had and you tossed it in the trash
You tossed it in the trash, yes, you did
To give me all your love is all I ever asked
'Cause what you don't understand is

 

[klutchDb7]

Yep, I can do just friends, and I do. I try to respect girls and boundaries and whatnot, don't like going around trying to get a little "you know what," but maybe that's just me... lol

 

[jcrabb13]

I think it depends on the girl really, damn near every girl that I have been friends with I have ended up messing around with lol. However now that I have a son and fiance, things are a little different, I don't really have many chick friends that I associate with on a regular basis. I think that helps eliminate the sexual attraction some.

disassociate women, acquire currency

 

[IlovemyDC4]

Easy come, easy go, that's just how you live
Oh, take, take, take it all but you never give
Should've known you was trouble from the first kiss
Had your eyes wide open, why were they open?

Gave you all I had and you tossed it in the trash
You tossed it in the trash, you did
To give me all your love is all I ever asked
'Cause what you don't understand is

I'd catch a grenade for ya
Throw my hand on a blade for ya
I'd jump in front of a train for ya
You know I'd do anything for ya

I would go through all this pain
Take a bullet straight through my brain
Yes, I would die for you, baby
But you won't do the same

No, no, no, no

Black, black, black and blue, beat me 'til I'm numb
Tell the devil I said, hey, when you get back to where you're from
Mad women, bad women, that's just what you are, yeah
You'll smile in my face then rip the brakes out my car

Gave you all I had and you tossed it in the trash
You tossed it in the trash, yes, you did
To give me all your love is all I ever asked
'Cause what you don't understand is

EXACTLY~ that's how I feel!

 

[jcrabb13]

Easy come, easy go, that's just how you live
Oh, take, take, take it all but you never give
Should've known you was trouble from the first kiss
Had your eyes wide open, why were they open?

Gave you all I had and you tossed it in the trash
You tossed it in the trash, you did
To give me all your love is all I ever asked
'Cause what you don't understand is

I'd catch a grenade for ya
Throw my hand on a blade for ya
I'd jump in front of a train for ya
You know I'd do anything for ya

I would go through all this pain
Take a bullet straight through my brain
Yes, I would die for you, baby
But you won't do the same

No, no, no, no

Black, black, black and blue, beat me 'til I'm numb
Tell the devil I said, hey, when you get back to where you're from
Mad women, bad women, that's just what you are, yeah
You'll smile in my face then rip the brakes out my car

Gave you all I had and you tossed it in the trash
You tossed it in the trash, yes, you did
To give me all your love is all I ever asked
'Cause what you don't understand is

btdubs, i cant stand that faggot. he should whine a little more.

/redneck

 

[prophetDB7]

disassociate women, acquire currency

+ rep :thumbup:

but everyone needs to get laid once and awhile man. lol. :nono:

 

[ghost1776]

There is one 1 problem, the girl my bf talks to, his best friend, doesn't live in that same state. She lives across the country....however, he dated her back in hs, which was a good 9-10 years ago, but still...

We have fought over her before, and he always ends up telling me that he will not stop talking to her & that he is done with me...So IDK

I really appreciate all your advice guys

im not trying to bash your bf on purpose sounds like he is doing that to himself there, but in honesty he sounds like a dick! just dump him and move on imo. im sure you could find better. sounds like he may have cheated on you before, either way the trust has been broken and by him cheating show what he regards you as. Chunk him the dueces.

 

[jcrabb13]

im not trying to bash your bf on purpose sounds like he is doing that to himself there, but in honesty he sounds like a dick! just dump him and move on imo. im sure you could find better. sounds like he may have cheated on you before, either way the trust has been broken and by him cheating show what he regards you as. Chunk him the dueces.

oh look who showed up...

 

[IlovemyDC4]

im not trying to bash your bf on purpose sounds like he is doing that to himself there, but in honesty he sounds like a dick! just dump him and move on imo. im sure you could find better. sounds like he may have cheated on you before, either way the trust has been broken and by him cheating show what he regards you as. Chunk him the dueces.

Does talking to other girls, behind my back obviously, count as cheating? Cause I don't think he would sleep with someone else....But in terms of betraying my trust, he has by talking to other girls I don't understand

 

[jcrabb13]

I'm the "perfect" car gf...I just don't understand...

keep it up...i got more... lol