GUYS ONLY ~ Can you be friends w/ a girl w/o any sexual interest?

[IlovemyDC4]

Hey everyone! THIS IS FOR GUYS ONLY!

~ I am trying to prove a point, to my boyfriend...

Would you be able to be friends with a girl and not want to get in their pants? Or, is that all guys want...

Does it depend if she is pretty? Her personality? What is it?

Let me know! LOL This isn't a joke, I am completely serious & want your feedback!

 

[gugiey]

yes this is possible.
i had a best friend who was a girl she was real cool,
wanted to do everything with the guys.
was never attracted to her but she was really cute.
my gf always gt jealous cause we would hang out.
yes its possible

 

[ACJett]

possible but rare....

 

[IlovemyDC4]

That is what my bf is saying...bc I have a friend who is a guy, in another state, that I talk to about my car, cars in general etc. we are just friends & my bf is getting really jealous and I don't think there is anything to worry about bc I don't like him like that...so Idk if I should ask or just let it go?

 

[TheNailGuy]

Hey everyone! THIS IS FOR GUYS ONLY!

~ I am trying to prove a point, to my boyfriend...

Would you be able to be friends with a girl and not want to get in their pants? Or, is that all guys want...

Does it depend if she is pretty? Her personality? What is it?

Let me know! LOL This isn't a joke, I am completely serious & want your feedback!

This is very possible. In my profession being a nail tech/massage therapist I meet lots of women. In fact I have more girl friends than dude friends. And they are all hotties. Yes I get ideas of spooning with them but to react on it is a different story. I mean what guy does think about that? I think it all depends on the maturity of the guy and how perverted he is. Some men when they see a hot chick they all like oh em gee I wanna tap that. Lol.

But back on topic. Yes its possible to be friends with girls. Just depends on the guy.

 

[prophetDB7]

I believe that when we want to be friends with girls, there usually is some motive. Now there are the typical motives, but there are cases when all you want to be is just friends.

In my case, I'm currently "friends" with a girl that I really, really, like a lot. She's got everything going for her. Bangin' body, educated, mature, and awesome to hang out with. We've had some chemistry for a couple months, but now she just wants to be "friends". Hasn't stopped me from still trying to date her every chance i get. I've done or bought some things that has her friends thinking I'm just trying to get in her pants, but honestly I'm just trying to show her I'm capable of doing anything and everything for her. Yeah hopefully something happens, but right now what she's wearing underneath is the least of my concerns.

I love my integra to death, first car I've owned. I have some maintenance / cosmetic / performance mods I had planned, but I've postponed them and diverted my money and time to her. Yeah, nothing is certain, but at least if we get together or not, no regrets.

Haha, sorry guys and gals for the long speech. Bottom line, getting into her pants may be a motive, but when the girl isn't down like that, guys will either stay friends with you, or find someone else if they just want tang.

 

[jcrabb13]

possible but rare....

more or less when i meet a chick, the amount of time i spend talking to them shows if im interested or not...

but its happened on several occasions if the girl is a badass and i get friend zoned, then we can remain good friends. then again...i am dating one of those good friends. lol

 

[ACJett]

...so Idk if I should ask or just let it go?

Ask what?
Have you taked to the bf and reassured him its all good?

As long as you guys have an honest and trustworthy relationship, it shouldn't be too big of a deal to him. Seems natural on his part to wonder about it (at first) but after talking to you about it and getting the reassuring he needs, it should be a non-issue. As long as you have a history of trust and honesty with each other that is. Otherwise the reassuring won't mean shit and he'll continue to be bothered by it. If thats the case, the "other dude" is the least of the problems in your relationship...

 

[IlovemyDC4]

I believe that when we want to be friends with girls, there usually is some motive. Now there are the typical motives, but there are cases when all you want to be is just friends.

In my case, I'm currently "friends" with a girl that I really, really, like a lot. She's got everything going for her. Bangin' body, educated, mature, and awesome to hang out with. We've had some chemistry for a couple months, but now she just wants to be "friends". Hasn't stopped me from still trying to date her every chance i get. I've done or bought some things that has her friends thinking I'm just trying to get in her pants, but honestly I'm just trying to show her I'm capable of doing anything and everything for her. Yeah hopefully something happens, but right now what she's wearing underneath is the least of my concerns.

I love my integra to death, first car I've owned. I have some maintenance / cosmetic / performance mods I had planned, but I've postponed them and diverted my money and time to her. Yeah, nothing is certain, but at least if we get together or not, no regrets.

Haha, sorry guys and gals for the long speech. Bottom line, getting into her pants may be a motive, but when the girl isn't down like that, guys will either stay friends with you, or find someone else if they just want tang.

Good to know~! Thanks for all your input gentlemen!

 

[prophetDB7]

That is what my bf is saying...bc I have a friend who is a guy, in another state, that I talk to about my car, cars in general etc. we are just friends & my bf is getting really jealous and I don't think there is anything to worry about bc I don't like him like that...so Idk if I should ask or just let it go?

if your friend is in another state, and all you guys talk about is cars, I dont see any foulplay. Now if you spend more time talking to your friend then hanging out with you bf, I can understand his jealousy. You can always ask your friend if he's into you, and let him know you just want to stay friends. From his reaction to that, you'll see what his motives really are.

 

[IlovemyDC4]

Ask what?
Have you taked to the bf and reassured him its all good?

As long as you guys have an honest and trustworthy relationship, it shouldn't be too big of a deal to him. Seems natural on his part to wonder about it (at first) but after talking to you about it and getting the reassuring he needs, it should be a non-issue. As long as you have a history of trust and honesty with each other that is. Otherwise the reassuring won't mean shit and he'll continue to be bothered by it. If thats the case, the "other dude" is the least of the problems in your relationship...

I talked to my bf last night until 2am about it...and he is being a hypocrite because he has a friend thats a girl that he talks to & is best friends with, but he doesn't want me to have a guy friend? Who btw isn't even in the same state! I don't know what his problem is, I come home to him and love him & he is the one who in the past has lied & betrayed my trust! ~ I don't think there is anything there...at least on my end...but my concern is, if my friend has an alternative motive for talking to me? I don't wanna start any problems or give him any ideas bc I am in a relationship & love my bf...So should I ask my friend or let it go?

 

[jcrabb13]

Haha, sorry guys and gals for the long speech. Bottom line, getting into her pants may be a motive, but when the girl isn't down like that, guys will either stay friends with you, or find someone else if they just want tang.

guess his name isn't prophet for nothing. man speaks truth! lol

if hes an out of towner, even if hes crushing who cares...be cordial

 

[guiltyxxspark]

It is possible.


There's a few girls that I'm friends with that I wouldn't mind getting with. Do I try to? No, I'm engaged and that's frowned upon.

 

[ACJett]

... he is the one who in the past has lied & betrayed my trust!

^
THIS is the root of his paranoia...
I wouldn't ask your friend anything. Treat it like a normal friendship. If it gets weird because he's starting to show more interest then a simple "friend" should show, then maybe have a little conversation with him.

Until then, why rock the boat?

 

[JimmyRos.]

mmmmmmm depends on the guy. im not that guy. i smash!