GUYS ONLY ~ Can you be friends w/ a girl w/o any sexual interest?

[IlovemyDC4]

i don't like my friend in a :bf: kind of way...he is fun to talk to...He talks about cars with me & doesn't get annoyed when i just wanna talk about my car ALL DAY long lol...I just wanna know if there is anyway to make my bf see there is nothing there! I mean I told him to call my friend, which actually is OUR friend, but he said no...IDK what else to do to prove it~

 

[prophetDB7]

guess his name isn't prophet for nothing. man speaks truth! loll

Thanks! I would like to thank the alcohol I had this morning and my professor's boring lecture. :drool:

 

[JimmyRos.]

im not gonna lie, most girls ive talked to, ive always had intentions. its just an instinct when she's attractive even in the slightest way. there's only one girl that ive done stuff with that we were able to land in the friend zone afterwards. technically we're best friends now which is awesome.

you should consider a few things. are you planning around a friendship or a relationship? which matters more?

 

[IlovemyDC4]

you all make me laugh & smile

 

[prophetDB7]

no matter what anyone here tells you, its really at your discretion what your next move is. Best of luck with your problem. Hopefully things work out for the best for everyone involved.

 

[IlovemyDC4]

no matter what anyone here tells you, its really at your discretion what your next move is. Best of luck with your problem. Hopefully things work out for the best for everyone involved.

thank you!

 

[jcrabb13]

^
Until then, why rock the boat?

dont rock the boat, dont tip the boat over!

Thanks! I would like to thank the alcohol I had this morning and my professor's boring lecture. :drool:

alcohol? its 10:20 here...you might need AA. hahahah. gotta love college huh?

 

[dc2GS-R]

It's perfectly possible. I have a few friends that are girls that I have zero sexual interest in. Mostly just the unattractive friends though. I have pretty much had sex with all my attractive girl friends. Not that it was my goal, or that I'm only friends with them just for that, it just happens. Chances are, if she is hot, and we hang out all of the time, eventually after a few drinks something is bound to happen at some point. It's just inevitable.

 

[IlovemyDC4]

It's perfectly possible. I have a few friends that are girls that I have zero sexual interest in. Mostly just the unattractive friends though. I have pretty much had sex with all my attractive girl friends. Not that it was my goal, or that I'm only friends with them just for that, it just happens. Chances are, if she is hot, and we hang out all of the time, eventually after a few drinks something is bound to happen at some point. It's just inevitable.

Well see I could understand if I went out w/ this guy for drinks w/o my bf. but he doesn't even live in the state!

 

[prophetDB7]

alcohol? its 10:20 here...you might need AA. hahahah. gotta love college huh?

hahahaha. its happy hour somewhere in the world. I gave up smoking already, got to have at least once vice to help me get through the day.My buzz is already gone though. sigh...

 

[whitedc4]

my boyfriend is the same way. sunday nights when everyone on here hops on ps3 to play gt5 he gets mad but doesn't tell me he is mad until the next day and accuses me of cheating on him somehow by playing grand turismo with a few guys. i'm not quite sure i understand how it's cheating but he says because he's been around enough he knows how a guy thinks.

 

[ACJett]

now that doesn't make no damn sense.... :what:

 

[elysianite]

Do what you do and just be open. If you find or suspect that this friend is crushing on you, let your guy know everything. My girl has a friend who is really into her, but she let him know that she's with me and that if he wanted to continue to be friends that he would have to cut it out and truly be her friend or walk. He plays by the rules now. I don't mind.

Ultimately, if you really value the friendship and it's important to you to keep, don't sacrifice it for your guy... you'll end up making more and more sacrifices from there forward and resentment will grow. Don't go down that road. If what you guys have is legit, he should support you in the areas of life you find important, whether it's friendship, family, cars, or other goals/aspirations.

 

[endo617]

Its crazy how things work though, one minute you can have zero to little attraction, but out of some crazy stir of events in a perfect order, you can get some thoughts going. The human mind is crazy, one second you want ice cream, the next you want cake, or you combine both. Like me i could change my mind about anything in a heart beat(on my own) for the craziest reasons. You could have a friend one minute then, one day i could be like "damn what if we were to hooked up". Out of no where and out of curiosity. Having a friend of the opposite sex is one of those things that is sometimes unpredictable as hell, because you don't really know what the other persons intensions are. They could catch you off guard or you are in a moment where you are easy persuaded into something more. :twocents:

 

[JemmieN]

Shitttt I got a lot of friends that are women and I'm not interested in any of them lmao. Like most said, it depends on the guy. I mainly look for a girl who looks alright but with a great personality and is fun to hang out with. Ya digg?