front bumper: feels like its barely on and the lights are not fully seated and kinda hanging. any mounts i need to check or info on this?
Check to see if all of the mounting screws are there. If not, look online for a hardware kit. I believe there are nine bolts on top that hold the bumper on. The bolt size is M6, which is common for the dressup kits. Just type in fender hardware kit or something like that into eBay and see what you find. You don't need a fancy hardware kit since the bumper isn't heavy.
axles: both are torn, do i need to worry about transmission fluid?
Check the fluid level and if it's full, don't worry about it. I would check the fluid and see if it smells burnt. If it smells burnt, change it. GM Synchromesh Friction Modified is great transmission fluid. I'd look into that.
As far as axles, get some new ToughOne axles from Advance Auto Parts. Excellent budget axles and they have lifetime warranties. They run about $60/pop. I work there and I'm using the ToughOne axles on my car and I'm not exactly easy on it. No problems yet.
mounts: im missing 2/3 bolts for my transmission mount. is it worth upgrading mounts or just swapping inserts? and where can i find these bolts? who has decent mount inserts?
It's up to you on whether or not you upgrade the mounts, but if the actual mount isn't messed up, I wouldn't worry about it. Same with the inserts. If you want good inserts, I believe both Energy Suspension and Prothane make mount inserts for your car for fairly cheap, and they're polyurethane. For the bolts, check Acura/Honda's parts websites and use pictures for references, or pull the remaining bolt and match it at the hardware store or Fastenal.
clutch: is there a way to adjust the clutch? its very...grabby and not fun at all. im new again to manuals after 5 years of autos...but my buddy who drives alot of performance manual cars said it didnt feel right, very shaky and rough clutch feeling.
I'd bleed the clutch.
rack pinion: boots are torn off, should i put new boots on or replace rack?
If it doesn't leak, replace the boots. If it does leak, weigh the options of replacing the rack. From what I understand, replacing the rack is a tedious job. If it's a slow leak, throw some stop leak in the reservoir and leave it alone. I'm normally very skeptical on stop leak, but I figured I'd chance it knowing I could temporarily loop the power steering lines and run manual steering if I had to, but I've had absolutely zero issues. If it leaks a lot, replace the rack.
oil leak: somewhere on head, previous owner thinks cam seals but im unsure of that...is it worth trying cam seals? or how hard is pulling head and resealing?
Cam seals are easy and cheap. I'd recommend aftermarket over oem on this one. Oem is plastic vs. aftermarket 9/10 times is billet aluminum. And cheaper.
Check the distributor o-ring and around the vtec solenoid. Both common places for leaks.
lots of exhaust popping...its got a cat but no muffler, im gonna put a muffler on that should help?
Yep. Please don't get a fart cannon.
You may also be running rich. I'd run some fuel system cleaner and some fuel injector cleaner through it and change your fuel filter just to be on the safe side.
tune: whats good tune? im newish to the scene, ive heard or chrome and hondata?
I wouldn't worry about tuning it yet until you have your other issues figured out and you have more mods done to your car.
i have a ton more questions and need a lot of interior/exterior parts...
Ask away!
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