Yea, if you cant step in to help him and give him advice then you have no choice but to be the bystander. The bystander would tell them to get their issues sorted out or move, because they are effecting how you live your life.
lolol yea i hear ya, but him and i are good friends as well so i just do what i can i guess
yea i hear ya
If you guys are close you can always get your circle of close friends together have a couple of drinks and then usually around 3-4am when it settles just a bit have one of those calm serious conversations. If she really is psycho and he is love drunk then he may not see it now, but at least when he finally wakes up he will remember his friends tried to help him and didnt stop. Then again maybe with all his close friends in one place trying to tell him the same thing he will listen.
I'm J/Ping. I understand where you're coming from. You feel obligated to help without overstepping boundaries because he's your buddy and it's an awkward situation when other couples fight in front of you. It must be stressful on ya, though.
yea pretty much. but na i dont stress about it today was the first time i really had to step in. usually i just sit back and lol at most of the shit they say to each other. its usually reallly commical
he knows where i stand and how i feel about it. and i think hes just in an akward stage in his life, just out of a crazy long relationship and thrown into a new area. hell figure shit out at some point.
lol one of a few reasons lol
