DOLCECULLO
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hello all, a little background about me...I am 19 and a sophomore in college (I commute and live at home with my parents) I think that I am quite mature for my age seeing that all anyone I meet at school wants to do is get drunk every night of the week and I figure I would rather go to work/ work on my cars. I wouldn't consider myself a very social or outgoing person and don't really have many friends around most of the year as mine have moved away for schooling and I find it difficult to go out and meet people. Which as a result has led to me having very few "romantic" relationships with girls.
but anyway...here's my dilemma...
I met a girl over last summer (had a bf at the time) who is a little over a year younger than me, 18. We have talked everyday for the past 10 months, be it on the phone, texting, or facebook. Then she became single in December.We would go out to dinner or just hang out at her house occasionally when our schedules permitted (mostly hers). I feel like I did everything I should have. She even had an appendectomy in March and I went out of my way to visit her in the hospital. Everything seemed to be going great but I was always a little agitated that whenever I would ask her to come over to hang out at my house she was always "busy". Then I find out that one of her ex's (who was also her best friend) who was in rehab was coming home, she would tell me that he's tried to contact her but she decided that she wants nothing to do with him anymore. When he eventually came home I found out that through a mutual friend that they would hang out every once in a while, not in a romantic way but just as friends. Then all of a sudden whenever I would ask to hang out she would always have an excuse as to why she was busy. Obviously I started to get a little agitated by the fact that whenever we saw each other she would never make an effort to come see me, instead she always made me drive across town to pick her up. Then a couple nights ago she sends me a text saying "i dont think I want to do this anymore" when I asked why all she said was "I dont feel like putting in the effort"...seriously WTF?!?! At this point I have no interest in being with her anymore since she is turning out to be very immature and seems like all she did was string me along...
sorry about the rant guys, I know it might sound like I'm a winy little kid but I needed a venue to vent. As said before I dont have a lot of friends or people I can talk to so I was hoping you guys could give me some insight...thanks
but anyway...here's my dilemma...
I met a girl over last summer (had a bf at the time) who is a little over a year younger than me, 18. We have talked everyday for the past 10 months, be it on the phone, texting, or facebook. Then she became single in December.We would go out to dinner or just hang out at her house occasionally when our schedules permitted (mostly hers). I feel like I did everything I should have. She even had an appendectomy in March and I went out of my way to visit her in the hospital. Everything seemed to be going great but I was always a little agitated that whenever I would ask her to come over to hang out at my house she was always "busy". Then I find out that one of her ex's (who was also her best friend) who was in rehab was coming home, she would tell me that he's tried to contact her but she decided that she wants nothing to do with him anymore. When he eventually came home I found out that through a mutual friend that they would hang out every once in a while, not in a romantic way but just as friends. Then all of a sudden whenever I would ask to hang out she would always have an excuse as to why she was busy. Obviously I started to get a little agitated by the fact that whenever we saw each other she would never make an effort to come see me, instead she always made me drive across town to pick her up. Then a couple nights ago she sends me a text saying "i dont think I want to do this anymore" when I asked why all she said was "I dont feel like putting in the effort"...seriously WTF?!?! At this point I have no interest in being with her anymore since she is turning out to be very immature and seems like all she did was string me along...
sorry about the rant guys, I know it might sound like I'm a winy little kid but I needed a venue to vent. As said before I dont have a lot of friends or people I can talk to so I was hoping you guys could give me some insight...thanks
