stupid girls...well just one

tork_sd89

Baywatch
Yea man I know the feeling. I'm 21 and in college too and I was with my girl for a year and then she was in orange county with her cuz and was at some party and 2 dudes raped her. Being the guy I am I stuck by her tried to help her with healing, went to counseling.. then we found out she was preggo.. i still stayed with her it was hard but like fuck i loved her i didn't wanna turn my back on her.. we were supposed to get engaged but out of no where she left me and we didn't talk for 3 months. She came back into my life a month ago like right after I got the teg lol and I was happy about it cuz even thru it all I still had feelings for her.. we went thru alot together u know. Well we started hanging out again I thought we were getting back together then she tells me she had a bf like the whole time we started talking again. He's 27 with a 5yr old son! So the moral of my story is don't put all ur trust in someone and it could always be worse and most of the time girls around our age still don't know what they want dude. Trapped with a high school mentality like everything is lollipops and cotton candy!
 

superhypered

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tork_sd89 said:
Yea man I know the feeling. I'm 21 and in college too and I was with my girl for a year and then she was in orange county with her cuz and was at some party and 2 dudes raped her. Being the guy I am I stuck by her tried to help her with healing, went to counseling.. then we found out she was preggo.. i still stayed with her it was hard but like f*** i loved her i didn't wanna turn my back on her.. we were supposed to get engaged but out of no where she left me and we didn't talk for 3 months. She came back into my life a month ago like right after I got the teg lol and I was happy about it cuz even thru it all I still had feelings for her.. we went thru alot together u know. Well we started hanging out again I thought we were getting back together then she tells me she had a bf like the whole time we started talking again. He's 27 with a 5yr old son! So the moral of my story is don't put all ur trust in someone and it could always be worse and most of the time girls around our age still don't know what they want dude. Trapped with a high school mentality like everything is lollipops and cotton candy!
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touched my heart... till you got to that
 

DOLCECULLO

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tork_sd89 said:
Yea man I know the feeling. I'm 21 and in college too and I was with my girl for a year and then she was in orange county with her cuz and was at some party and 2 dudes raped her. Being the guy I am I stuck by her tried to help her with healing, went to counseling.. then we found out she was preggo.. i still stayed with her it was hard but like f*** i loved her i didn't wanna turn my back on her.. we were supposed to get engaged but out of no where she left me and we didn't talk for 3 months. She came back into my life a month ago like right after I got the teg lol and I was happy about it cuz even thru it all I still had feelings for her.. we went thru alot together u know. Well we started hanging out again I thought we were getting back together then she tells me she had a bf like the whole time we started talking again. He's 27 with a 5yr old son! So the moral of my story is don't put all ur trust in someone and it could always be worse and most of the time girls around our age still don't know what they want dude. Trapped with a high school mentality like everything is lollipops and cotton candy!
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I'm really sorry to hear that man. At least there's CI to always have your back
 

todd5854

New Member
DOLCECULLO said:
thanks for the support and words of wisdom guys. Believe me there's no chance I'm gonna start being a stereotypical college kid and go out partying every night. Maybe I'll drink in a couple years but not now, I dont want to jeopardize my chances of getting into grad school at all. It just sucks that she stayed around for so long and probably knew the entire time she didn't feel the same way about me. Even worse is she would sit and tell me all the things she wanted to do together this summer...what a pack of lies. I'm trying my best to move on and forget about her but it's tough when I don't really have any friends here to hang out with. Can't help but think about it when all I do is go to class, work (where I'm by myself) and sit at home.
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this is the worst part. ive never had a girlfriend in the summer.. we always met in august or something and f***'d up by april... (like right now :cry: )

its a real shame man... i'd do anything to get her back.
 

DOLCECULLO

Detailer
todd5854 said:
this is the worst part. ive never had a girlfriend in the summer.. we always met in august or something and f***'d up by april... (like right now :cry: )

its a real shame man... i'd do anything to get her back.
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that's exactly what happens to me bro. I'm getting sick and tired of it
 

the4doorway

New Member
the same s*** happened to me man. my ex dumped me for a guy that was much worse then me. im one of the nicest people my friends know like when she was breaking up with me i gave her a pep talk so she wouldnt cry while i stayed strong and she was breaking up with me. then the next day she is dating another guy. she cheated on me twice and i just brushed it off. now she is trying to get back together with me and even though i want to i dont because it will happen again and i know it. now that im single all her friends found out how she treated me and hate her and are all about doing what i wanna do. find a great group of girls and stick in there sooner or later youll find the right one. but remember to keep your head held high dont turn to drugs youll be like me. when i get extremely depressed i have to have my smoke. steer clear of drugs like deer on the road cause all they do is cause more pain and less money to blow.
 
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todd5854

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DOLCECULLO said:
that's exactly what happens to me bro. I'm getting sick and tired of it
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just remember that you didn't do anything wrong man. i know for a fact that i did so much s*** wrong that i was blessed to have almost 7 months with her.

sounds like your girl wasn't bein truthful and stuff. my girl was always truthful and i would kill to get her back. im not gonna brag cause thats not cool one bit.

but its still better to lose a bad person than a good one, you know? =/
 

Kiakid

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Dont feel too bad OP, shit happens, so why not have fun stomping on it right? but yea, im in the same boat, i was actually supposed to be married, well right about now actually, but she ran off without a word and then about a month ago told me my son wasnt mine. so trust me, it can always be worse, at least all you really spent on her was gas and some food lol
 
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