If you have the money or you're at least frugal and patient enough then save up and get the "proven" gear. I say proven because expensive doesn't mean the best for you. Blox and Blackworks, RoKKer are decent enough if you are not racing and thrashing your ride and they're not expensive. The Ebay stuff, well, its all subjective. I have some Ebay stuff thats worked fine, but I'm not ripping up the road either. So do you and whatever you're comfortable with. People are gonna have stuff to flame you about regardless of what you get. I mean, seriously, $3500 to $5000 on suspension components on a 20 year old daily driver? Really? At the same time; $250 for a near complete suspension package from Ebay IS suspect....