VTEC activates at 4400 in a GSR, your dual stage intake manifold's secondaries open at 5700. They are two totally independant functions of the engine. They complement one another, but have nothing to do directly with each other.
If your "Firerstone guy" is supposedly an Integra tuner, and he doesn't understand why you get lag at 4400 rpm in a B18C after installing aftermarket cams, he shouldn't be tuning Integra's.
Your getting the lag in power when VTEC activates because your cams are now lifting the valves so high for so long that your bleeding off a large amount of cylinder pressure out your valve openings. Your losing compression, adding fuel won't fix that problem. You need to regain the lost cylinder pressure, which requires a sizeable compression increase. A bigger compression increase than a thinner headgasket or milling will get you. You need high compression pistons, like I said before. Sure, adding some fuel will get you a little HP and is a good idea for the safety of your engine, but it won't fix the problem.
Now, before I added high comp. pistons to my engine, I had the same problem. I moved VTEC up to 5000 and it went away. My engine was still overcammed, like yours is now, I was still bleeding off a lot of cylinder pressure but at least I got rid of the lag.
and what are second rollers?