thank god you're not in my area, otherwise i'll get out of my car and smack your window.
i do this all the time when someone drives behind me with there high beams on.
no matter what you do to "limit" the amount of light coming out of the high beam socket it wont' matter, cause its not the bulb type that matters, its the way the reflective bowl is shaped, its meant to shine all over the place. so no matter what bulb you put in, unless its a peanut bulb like those people who want drl's, than fine, cause that's enough to have a brightness protruded, if you want the drl look, than put a peanut bulb in there or go to canada, ask one of the integra people there to take there drl systems, and brign it back there.