OP is dumb, anyone who argued that its not his fault is dumb, i dont have anyone else to list...but theyre probably dumb too.
Legally, its his fault, thats all that matters, 99% of the time its the person doing the rear end collision at fault, unless you can prove the person cut you off and braked to make you hit them. she was at a light, which the OP himself said had JUST turned green. so because she had a slightly lower reaction time at the light then someone who was already moving and he was not paying enough attention to the vehicle in front of him, it is his fault due to negligence. not hers. Also, learn how to use ABS or learn how to drive without it. that could have saved the front of your car.
that being said, i live in a college town and most girls here cant drive daddys bmw to save their life. keyword: most.
theres exceptions to every rule.
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