GUYS ONLY ~ Can you be friends w/ a girl w/o any sexual interest?

IlovemyDC4

Sleep, Sex, Cars
G3GirL said:
lol what? did i lie?
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Until your in my situation, you won't understand...This thread is about my bf being controlling & telling me what to do, while being a hypocrite and doing the same shit...He prob has a guilty conscience...I appreciate your input, along with everyone elses but I am NOT on here to flirt with other guys...I am here to get guys/girls input...my "friendly" responses might come off as flirty but its nothing more than being friendly...

I don't take it as harsh what you said because you don't know the depth of my relationship & its irrelevant because thats not what the thread was asking...
 

r0g3r16

New Member
endo617 said:
Let me make it easy for everyone here and post this, this should narrow it down, LMFAO good luck everyone
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thanks you for making it so easy!! haha got it all filled



(haha im so bored at wrk i decided to fill it out from boredom)
 

imcnblu

Resident G2 Guru of C-I
dump your boyfriend. sounds like an asshole. be friends with your friend. find new boyfriend to prove to your ex that your car friend is just a car friend, and then introduce him to your new boyfriend.

key thing is:
*THE NEW BOYFRIEND CAN NOT BE YOUR CAR FRIEND, OR YOUR PARANOID BOYFRIEND WINS*

Don't like that idea? Tell your car friend to act gay. Tell your boyfriend he turned gay (or is gay) then your boyfriend spends less time worrying about your vagina, and more time worrying about his own a-hole.

both seem reasonable to me.
 

IlovemyDC4

Sleep, Sex, Cars
hondagod_666 said:
dump your boyfriend. sounds like an asshole. be friends with your friend. find new boyfriend to prove to your ex that your car friend is just a car friend, and then introduce him to your new boyfriend.

key thing is:
*THE NEW BOYFRIEND CAN NOT BE YOUR CAR FRIEND, OR YOUR PARANOID BOYFRIEND WINS*

Don't like that idea? Tell your car friend to act gay. Tell your boyfriend he turned gay (or is gay) then your boyfriend spends less time worrying about your vagina, and more time worrying about his own a-hole.

both seem reasonable to me.
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Ha ha thanks! That could work lol
 

96PurpGS-R

LOLUMAD?
Guys should stay out of the Friend Zone. Especially if the girl has a boyfriend already. Do you really want to hear the girl crying/complaining to you about her relationship? Not me.
If you are in the Friend Zone, then it means that you failed as a guy to ask that girl out. And maybe that's why the girl got with a guy before you can get with her.
If she's single and you are in the FZ, then she has no interest in being in a relationship with you and only wants to be friends. Homosexual males are ideal to be in the FZ (random).

Anyways, pardon my ignorance, if any.
Do what feels right for you. These are just my opinions.

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IlovemyDC4 said:
.This thread is about my bf being controlling & telling me what to do, while being a hypocrite and doing the same s***...He prob has a guilty conscience....
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If that is the case, get rid of him. You don't need that type of person in your life.
 
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IlovemyDC4

Sleep, Sex, Cars
96PurpGS-R said:
Guys should stay out of the Friend Zone. Especially if the girl has a boyfriend already. Do you really want to hear the girl crying/complaining to you about her relationship? Not me.
If you are in the Friend Zone, then it means that you failed as a guy to ask that girl out. And maybe that's why the girl got with a guy before you can get with her.
If she's single and you are in the FZ, then she has no interest in being in a relationship with you and only wants to be friends. Homosexual males are ideal to be in the FZ (random).

Anyways, pardon my ignorance, if any.
Do what feels right for you. These are just my opinions.

EDIT:

If that is the case, get rid of him. You don't need that type of person in your life.
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Thank you for your input :)

I am just trying to make myself happy, with or without him, and right now ALL my attention, money & focus is on my baby, Snow White...She can always make me smile :D
 

BrokenTalon27

W.F.O
Your bf isn't going to change until he decides to change, or he feels that something drastic will change in his life if he doesn't. You can beg, threaten, persuade, even try classical conditioning(See Pavlov's Dogs) and none of it will take roots until he decides to make the change. It may take you leaving him to get through to him.
In the end, you have to do what is best for you.
If you think dealing with his jealousy is acceptable and that other things in your relationship outweigh this problem, then stay.
However, if you feel that it truly is an issue for you, and he is not making efforts to change his attitude and actions in respect to this problem, then tell him to hit the bricks.
In the end, it has to be your decision to stay or go. If not, you will never feel closure about the situation or be able to get past it and you might end up in a cycle of breaking up and getting back together with him. That sort of thing can be miserable.
Just my $.02 worth.
 

whitedc4

Well-Known Member
I've had a friends with benefits before it's a lot more fun than being in a relationship and if I wouldn't have met current bf I woul still be gladly be sleeping with someone no strings attached. Everyone does it in some way even if it's not sex sometimes it's hearing someone just tell u what u wanna hear about urself in texts.

Having a partner that's cheated on u can drive you crazy it did me and finally after the fifth break up I got a sex buddy and told ex bf that I was finally over him. It's hard to break up with someone you've been with for a while but it's totally worth it if ur unhappy and u can admit it to yourself.

Dylans right tho having to ask someone else kinda shows you should just dump him
it's like you're looking for someone to approve it for you whe you know what would honestly make you more happy
 
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