GUYS ONLY ~ Can you be friends w/ a girl w/o any sexual interest?

[whitedc4]

ive called my mom and sisters to help me move out before but then by the time they're ready to help he makes me feel even worse by saying its all me and if i was really wanting to be in this relationship i wouldn't need friends and that i'm leaving him by choice not because he's making me so for some sick reason i stay.... mainly i'm sure to prove a point that i'm not leaving him he's going to have to make me leave... but then again at times i'm really happy so idk.

 

[IlovemyDC4]

OMG its the same shit! LOL We are def in the same boat...You should come to Import Alliance 2011 in Nashville, TN...I'll be going

 

[IlovemyDC4]

ive called my mom and sisters to help me move out before but then by the time they're ready to help he makes me feel even worse by saying its all me and if i was really wanting to be in this relationship i wouldn't need friends and that i'm leaving him by choice not because he's making me so for some sick reason i stay.... mainly i'm sure to prove a point that i'm not leaving him he's going to have to make me leave... but then again at times i'm really happy so idk.

Oh btw...I looked it up..in GA there is no common law marriage law YAY! LOL

 

[8-bit]

if marriage or kids come into play things will be more difficult. i know a couple where they both cheat on each other countless times and have children together. i guess they are just together for the sake of the kids. which is frankly sad.
I've been with my girl for three years we are not married but eventually i want to marry her because I know she is a good mother and i can be real with her no matter the problem. a healthy relationship is when you can talk to each other about anything.

 

[IlovemyDC4]

if marriage or kids come into play things will be more difficult. i know a couple where they both cheat on each other countless times and have children together. i guess they are just together for the sake of the kids. which is frankly sad.
I've been with my girl for three years we are not married but eventually i want to marry her because I know she is a good mother and i can be real with her no matter the problem. a healthy relationship is when you can talk to each other about anything.

I know that I am not going to marry him, or have kids with him...So should I leave him?

 

[ghost1776]

I know that I am not going to marry him, or have kids with him...So should I leave him?

Chunk the dueces and roll out! middle finger in the air.

 

[8-bit]

the question is:
what do you want in life?
my answer:
i wanted a family and someone to share my life with.

 

[IlovemyDC4]

That is what I want...I want to be happy & enjoy my life with someone

I have a lot to offer someone and I just want the same respect ... I treat people the way I want to be treated

 

[8-bit]

ok then you answered your question then.
if your current bf doesnt want that then i guess its time to book!

 

[ACURANSXT00]

Wtf?

I completely agree, believe me...however...its difficult because we have been together for over 3 years & its hard to just give that all up...but I guess it comes down to whether or not I'm going to be an enabler and continue to let him treat me like crap? 3 yrs or not....

I hope you re-read this. Not to be a rude but this sounds really sad. There are a lot of good guys out there looking for good women and the good women are stuck with all of the d-bag!!! :???:

 

[IlovemyDC4]

I hope you re-read this. Not to be a rude but this sounds really sad. There are a lot of good guys out there looking for good women and the good women are stuck with all of the d-bag!!! :???:

No I completely understand, this sounds sad & I am prob gonna regret all these months once I have moved on... Its a big decision...Stay, and make it work OR Leave, go back to California & re-start my life, again...

Hmmmmmmmm

 

[8-bit]

do you have family here in ga?

 

[G3GirL]

I don't mean to sound harsh, but I will never understand why some girls stay with guys who are obviously dicks and who are controlling. It's unhealthy. Jealousy doesn't mean they love you, although sometimes it happens. Certain amounts are permissble, but when a guy starts to flip out over who you chose to be friends with when he's doing the same thing, it might be time to cut your losses. Every relationship has its ups and downs, but at the end of the day if you can't feel you can trust the person you are with, then what is the point in staying together?

 

[guiltyxxspark]

No I completely understand, this sounds sad & I am prob gonna regret all these months once I have moved on... Its a big decision...Stay, and make it work OR Leave, go back to California & re-start my life, again...

Hmmmmmmmm

Cut your losses and leave. There's no point in staying in a relatioship you're unhappy with.

 

[DC4twokone]

Yes, easy.