GUYS ONLY ~ Can you be friends w/ a girl w/o any sexual interest?

ACURANSXT00

New Member
Yes it is possible. I have many friends that are girls. It's the actually girlfriend/wife that make it into a bad thing. If a guy and a girl want to be friends then so be it. If someone is saying that it is not possible then they are insecure with themselves and don't trust you. It's like my ex telling me that I couldn't be friends with single guys and or girls. F' that!! You don't trust me then F' off!!! I have never given you a reason to worry so it must be you! All in a nut shell!!
 
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ghost1776

Respected Member!!
Does talking to other girls, behind my back obviously, count as cheating? Cause I don't think he would sleep with someone else....But in terms of betraying my trust, he has by talking to other girls :( and I mean I'm not conceited but I'm not ugly and I'm the perfect car gf...I just don't understand...
if he has to lie about it then there is prob something else going on. i dont see it as cheating as i dont tell my wife about everyone i talk to cause i cant remeber everything but i wouldnt lie if asked. but if he lies about it then thats a diff story.
 
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IlovemyDC4

Sleep, Sex, Cars
Yes it is possible. I have many friends that are girls. It's the actually girlfriend/wife that make it into a bad thing. If a guy and a girl want to be friends then so be it. If someone is saying that it is not possible then they are insecure with themselves and don't trust you. It's like my ex telling me that I couldn't be friends with single guys and or girls. F' that!! You don't trust me then F' off!!! I have never given you a reason to worry so it must be you! All in a nut shell!!
Well see, he knew I was talking to a guy, who is our friend & he got mad...I think more bc he talks to me more than him? And I told my bf he is NOT going to control me, tell me what to do, or who to speak too...
 

Matt Parsons

New Member
Life is too short to waste on people that treat you poorly. If someone starts lying to you, it is best to simply stop associating with them.
 

IlovemyDC4

Sleep, Sex, Cars
Life is too short to waste on people that treat you poorly. If someone starts lying to you, it is best to simply stop associating with them.
I completely agree, believe me...however...its difficult because we have been together for over 3 years & its hard to just give that all up...but I guess it comes down to whether or not I'm going to be an enabler and continue to let him treat me like crap? 3 yrs or not....
 

ghost1776

Respected Member!!
I completely agree, believe me...however...its difficult because we have been together for over 3 years & its hard to just give that all up...but I guess it comes down to whether or not I'm going to be an enabler and continue to let him treat me like crap? 3 yrs or not....
get out before you marry! lmao
 

whitedc4

Well-Known Member
isn't living together for 2 years considered common law marriage? i don't know every state that recognizes that but ive heard people getting their everything taken away just as if they would have been married.


--sorry i keep posting in here i know it says guys only but i'm in the same boat. every time we fight he brings up me being friends with his friends who are horn dogs apparently and bla bla not to mention the retarded ps3 thing again soo yeah clicking out now--
 

IlovemyDC4

Sleep, Sex, Cars
isn't living together for 2 years considered common law marriage? i don't know every state that recognizes that but ive heard people getting their everything taken away just as if they would have been married.


--sorry i keep posting in here i know it says guys only but i'm in the same boat. every time we fight he brings up me being friends with his friends who are horn dogs apparently and bla bla not to mention the retarded ps3 thing again soo yeah clicking out now--

It's cool for you 2 be in here :) LOL I like you he he

I hate men! I wish we could live without them...but we can't :(

I'm 1 foot out the door, my bf is on his last hoorah and then i'm gone....back to Cali
 
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