Body kit = ricer = super ghey. Please don't do it. ... see what you like.
As much as I agree with body kits being ridiculous, I will also say that each person should make their own choices for their car. I've always said that I'm building my car for me, not for other people - so why let people tell me what I should or shouldn't put on it?
On the same token though, it's nice to have suggestions and such from other people to inform you of what other options are out there. On this forum, you'll find that the 99% of the population is into the OEM++ look, if you will. OEM lip kits, lowered nicely, a nice set of rims, etc. Nothing over the top, keep it simple.