Not exactly. HIDs draw 35W of power, the standard Halogen low beam lamp draws 55W.
The HID actually draws LESS power over time than the standard halogen.
However, at ignition, when the lights are turned on, they do require slightly more current than your standard halogen bulb to illuminate, but once they're running, it requires less power to keep them going.
Bottom line, regardless of whether you've got HIDs or halogens, having your headlights on, will NOT kill your alternator or battery, unless you leave them on with the car off. Your friend is mistaken.