il see if i got a pic somewhere of mine..but its carbon fiber lip piece.it suttle but effective.its a little like the first one someone posted up but it doesnt have that little raised area that 3rd gens ,and most kits have.its very clean looking and gets lots of compliments,and gives a serious street hugger attitude.
another is the urythane type are lip.it looks small at first,but once its on,you really see the difference.I got an extra that I could try and send you if you want it,only prob is that I left it in LA and im in Tx.but I could see if my bro could get off his lazy ass and send it.
as far as side skirts,I like the plain ones .the ones I have are hard to find ..I dont know why but they are,I got with the car when I bought it.they are very plain.ppl always want to buy em off me or do a trade.
but yeah,I preffer the not-so-aggesive look.