Click here for a recent thread about tail lights. OEM tail lights ONLY. Any ebay or aftermarket tail lights are just ricey.
As for wheels, I personally like GSR Blades.
If you want to be one of the cool kids, Rota FTW.
Slipstreams
GT3
Keep in mind, these wheels come in different colors and these are MY aftermarket wheels of choice. Whatever looks good to you really, can't exactly pick wheels on other people's opinions. But I think tail lights should ALWAYS be OEM.